Do your relationships keep failing? Are you stagnating in life and keep coming short? There’s a chance you went the wrong path and became the problem. Take the following quiz and see if you are the problem or not.
This Quiz Reveals If You Are The Problem
Everyone tries their best to avoid problems. Therefore, nobody wants to carry the label “problem” around. These people have developed toxic and unhealthy traits over time. Now, they repel those around them.
If you want to see if you are the problem in your, and other people’s lives, you came to the right page. Through the following 20 thought-provoking questions you will learn more about yourself. Our quiz will compare your personality and behavior patterns to those of a problematic person.
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Why Is Anyone Called a Problem?
If you have ever faced a difficult math problem, you know how tiresome and hard getting a result can be. Some people are like that. According to the Cambridge Dictionary, a person who is referred to as a problem is someone who causes difficulties and is hard to deal with.
It is not a stretch to say that we all had someone like that in our lives at some point. Moreover, you can quickly spot that person. It can be in a relationship, family, group of friends, or even out on the street. But, what if we are the problem?
When you are the biggest problem for your success and progress in life things start to get complicated. People who are known as being the problem are usually unaware of their harmful traits. It takes someone from the outside to point it out to them. When you are the problem, whether it is your relationship, family, or some other setting, you greatly depend on others to bring up your bad behavior.
Lastly, it can be difficult for the problematic person to acknowledge their shortcomings. In a society oriented on pushing forward, it is counter-productive for one to be their own biggest culprit. Yet, that is the case for many people. Take the quiz and find out if you or someone else is the problem in your life.
Signs That You Are A Problem
More often than not, problematic people share similar traits. If you are not a fan of online quizzes, don’t worry. You can find out if you are the problem by taking a look at the following signs. If the majority of them are true for you, sadly, you are the problem.
You Avoid Discussions
You are actively avoiding important discussions. If you are not separating yourself from the person who is trying to talk about a serious topic, you undermine its severity. With that act, you make the other person feel insecure and betrayed.
You Are Not Accountable
Moving forward requires accepting our flaws and limitations. People who are not able to do that usually deflect their failures onto others. If you are not capable of admitting your mistakes and shortcomings, there is a good chance that you are the problem.
You Manipulate Others
When it comes to getting the things you want, manipulation isn’t a problem. You tend to downright lie or hide information from people if it doesn’t help get you whatever you desire.
You Are Inconsistent
Everyone has forgotten a commitment or a promise one way or another. But, if that is constantly happening to you, there is a bigger problem lying around. Does that sound like you?
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The Test Said I Am The Problem, What Next?
You paid attention to the questions, you answered honestly, and now you are looking at the result. Except, it is not what you were anticipating. The quiz said that you are the problem. As reality slowly hits you, your mind is racing for answers. How can I be the problem? More importantly, how can I stop being the problem?
The first step to becoming a better person is acknowledging that you have a problem. Without doing so, you will be unable to get rid of your unhealthy habits. Moreover, don’t expect the change to occur overnight. Working on yourself requires continuous effort.
If at any point you come to a halt and don’t know how to move forward, reach out to your family and loved ones. Talking to a therapist is a great option as well. Keep believing in yourself and your ability to carve a better future for everyone around you.
Megan is our resident expert on matters of the heart and human connection. With a background in psychology and a passion for exploring the intricacies of love and sexuality, she curates quizzes that delve deep into the human experience. Megan's quizzes cover a spectrum of topics, from relationship dynamics to human sexuality, offering both fun and insightful content. Whether you're seeking to understand the nuances of love or simply looking for some relationship advice, Megan's quizzes will enlighten and entertain.