Lithromantic Test

Are you struggling with your partners every time things get serious? Do you quickly lose interest the moment they reciprocate your feelings? If you answered yes to both of those questions, you might be lithromantic. The easiest way to prove that is by taking our lithromantic test.

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How Does a Lithromantic Test Work?

Our lithromantic quiz has 20 questions. Each question has 4 possible answers and you need to select one that relates to you the most. You must answer truthfully so that our algorithm can make a correct assessment.

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What Is Lithromantic?

Today our generation is more open to exploring their sexuality, feelings, and identity. We’re no longer confined by traditional terms such as straight and gay, or male and female. But that also means that we need to learn more about new terms such as lithromantic.

Lithromantics are individuals who feel romantic love towards others but don’t want those feelings reciprocated. While most of us are running around trying to find someone that will love us, lithromantics are put off by that idea. They can have crushes and experience romantic interests, but the moment those feelings are returned they lose interest. They’re the clear opposite of cupioromantics.

The common misconception many have is that romantic and sexual orientation go hand in hand. That is usually false. While lithromantics might not be interested in a romantic relationship, that doesn’t interfere with their sexual attraction or orientation.

Can Lithromantics Have Relationships?

Lithromantics often have no interest in romantic relationships and will actively avoid them. However, that doesn’t mean that they can’t be in one. Sometimes they can even accept reciprocated love, but that’s rare.

Don’t expect a lot of romance in a relationship with a lithromantic. The word “lith” comes from the Greek word “lithos” which means stone. The word describes lithromantics perfectly, as they are usually as romantic as a stone.

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Lithromantic or Akoiromantic?

Lithromantic and akoiromantic are two terms that imply the same thing. The Lesbian community had an issue with the word lith since butch, or stone sexual identity implies masculine lesbians. Thus, the new word akoiromantic was born.

5 Signs That You Are Lithromantic

The easiest way to answer the question “am I lithromantic” is by taking a look into your past relationships. Did you quickly lose interest in the other person once it was obvious that they liked you back? If the answer is yes, there is a high chance that you are lithromantic. Here are some other signs that someone is lithromantic.

1. You Don’t Need a Romantic Relationship

Lithromantics don’t feel a need for relationships. They are content with loving from afar and not having that love reciprocated. If the other person starts catching feelings they quickly lose any interest.

2. Romance Bores You

Romance is everywhere around us. It’s in the movies, TV shows, books, and in people themselves. If you can’t stand it and the thought of romance repulses you, there is a high chance you are lithromantic.

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3. Platonic Relationships Are The Way To Go

Lithromantics prefer platonic relationships over romantic ones. Even having a sexual relationship is fine for them, as long as the other person doesn’t love them back. They can’t stand having their affection returned and will quickly end a relationship if it comes to that.

4. Your Romantic Feelings Fade Easily

The moment lithromantics enter a relationship something changes. The romance they have for their partner quickly fades away. Each hint of love, romance, and commitment from their partners pushes them further away.

5. You Fall In Love With People Who Are Taken

This statement is not true for all lithromantics, but it is for some. Falling in love with people who are married, or in a relationship gives them a safety cushion. They aren’t able to reciprocate their feelings back to lithromantics which makes them the perfect partners.

Possible Results Of Lithromantic Test

Upon completing this lithromantic quiz, you will be presented with a result. There are three possible results. Read on to learn more about them.

Result #1: You Are Lithromantic

If at the end of the quiz, you are presented with this result, you are most likely lithromantic. You don’t have any problem having crushes or pursuing others romantically. However, the moment they start reciprocating those feelings back, you quickly lose interest.

Result #2: You Might Be Lithromantic

If you received this result, it means that you have some lithromantic tendencies. While you often lose interest in your partner once things get serious, it doesn’t happen all the time.

Result #3: You Are Not Lithromantic

Our lithromantic quiz determined that you are not lithromantic. If you believe that our algorithm made a mistake, redo the quiz and make sure you answer all the questions truthfully. We also have a complete aromantic spectrum quiz here.